Insecurity Without the Stigma
We all have doubts about ourselves. Am I too much? Am I not enough? I’m just weird. We try to get these insecurities under control and reign them in, but what if we’ve been going about it the wrong way.
Maintaining hope During Disparaging Times
There is a LOT going on the world right now. How do we not lose hope when it feels like everything is falling apart?
What We Get Wrong About Self-Regulation
Self-regulation is vital to manage our emotional and mental well being, but we are missing something vitally important when we talk about it.
Building a Sexual Mindset
Sometimes we have a hard time getting sexual with the person we love. How do we get in a sexual mindset so we can bring back this form of intimacy back into our relationship?
Relationship Care: Recharging the Couple
We often talk about self care but we also have to take care of the relationship as well.
The Hidden Gifts of Your Faults
We often see the negatives in ourselves, but how can we recast our weaknesses?
When Avoiding Conflict Causes Harm
Sometimes it is easier to ignore the elephant since it feels too big. But what harms are there when we ignore the issues we don’t want to face?
How to Stress: Three Ways to Reframe Stressful Issues
We all know about bad stress, but how do you connect to good types of stress?
What’s Your Armor in Conflict?
When we get in a conflict we have a tendency to Armor Up. Do you know what your Armor style is like? What are some common styles of Armor our there and how can we learn to take them off to pull people closer?
Taking a Break from Doomscrolling
Doomscrolling is when we can stop anxiously looking at the media which impacts our anxiety, depression, and sleep. How do we stop during these uneasy times?
Why Do I Feel The Need to Be Productive?
We can all get restless and feel like we aren't doing enough? Why is that?
Getting into Active Listening
We all have a tendency to talk OVER each other but how to we talk WITH each other and do some Active Listing
Checking In With Difficult Emotions
What Should I Do With My White Guilt?
Many White people are trying to figure out what to do during this time of unrest and ways to support Black People. As a White therapist, this is my own advice what to do with the need to do something.
Moving out of Shame and into Listening
Defensiveness and Shame Spirals hinder a lot of conversations. How we we learn to listen instead of avoiding or sitting in shame?
Rest Battery: Understanding Why You Are So Tired
Why are you so tired? Why is nothing helping? What are ways to get some of this energy back? Understand more about your Rest battery and what taking a break might look like.
RAIN: A Meditation for Overwhelming Emotions
Social Distancing, Self-Quarantine and Self-Care
How we take care of ourselves during a pandemic or needing to social distance is vital to reflect upon
(Re)Building Trust
Finding What You Want While Dating
Dating is the WORST, but what are ways to be more mindful about your process while trying to find a connection?